Text or next?

You read the books like He's Just Not That Into You or Textbook Romance and they tell you the man enjoys the chase. Don't call him. Don't say too much. Don't breathe in fact and maybe you can hold on to a man.

Maybe the people who write these books need to remember that this is the real world, and its not like a sex and city episode or mills and boons book.

Maybe its time to tell these men to get some balls and learn that its the 21st century and the world doesn't centre around them. That maybe life doesn't go according to plan.

I put this question to men, why do women have to wait for you to call them? Why do you say at the end of the date 'I'll call you' but have no intention to do so? Just say 'see ya' and be on your way.

If you give all the signs that you're interested... emailing instantly after I reply to your last email, calling me nearly every second day to talk for up to an hour each time, and then bug me all day long on the day of the date just to chat. THEN we go on date, you seem to be interested, and then there is no follow up phone call. Nothing. Its like you died in a fairy floss accident, never to be heard again. Just don't say at the end of the date, 'I'll call you!' because that total bullshit.

I don't say hey stud come home with me tonight and then change my mind half way through and say no thanks! I say no, and I mean no, and I say, when I mean yes. Pretty simple boys.

See women don't give mixed messages.

They say what they mean and when it comes out of their mouth it means exactly that.

But you boys like the chase, the games, and the non existent hints that your interested. Don't tell me that he is just not that interested. The man was. He just has no balls. To put it plainly. So for him, there is no text, its next! Maybe he will learn one day – if he ever does – that maybe the game playing is boring and we are 10 years old and like to be chased around the playground.

I grew out of my crimped pig tails, he obviously didn't grow out of his pre-pubescent behaviour.

Its definitely upwards and onwards for me.

I had light bulb moment today and deleted my ex boyfriend from my life.

Its ok I didn't do anything to him, I deleted him as a friend on facebook. It was one small step to saying goodbye to my past and hello to the future.

I have said goodbye to him and no can finally leave him where he belongs... hitching up with girls with STD's. LOL. Just kidding.