I did it...

You did it.

Every second person on the planet did it.

I am talking about women fixating on a man who is just not that into her.

It happens to all over us, just that some women, do not know when to walk away. When all is lost and there is no chance of a man showing any long term interest in you or even going on a date with you, that’s when you walk away.

You don’t text. You don’t text the man incessantly. You don’t text the man about random information in the hope he responds. You don’t do anything.

You do one thing… you delete his number from your phone. You delete his name from your Facebook page. You delete any means of contacting him.

Because you are worth more than that. And because he just isn’t interested. Harsh but true.

I was there at one point but the difference with me is that I deleted his number from my phone immediately after dumping his arse, I deleted him from Facebook just as fast, and stopped all communication with him. Even after he kept communicating with me, and keeping tabs on my with my now ex friends.

One of my closest, and most treasured friends, is currently going through this whole experience and its disheartening. This guy was a tool. One of those men who prefer the image of himself in a mirror than try to have a conversation with a woman.

The one thing going for him is that he was up front to say he wasn’t interested in dating. Whether my friend agrees or not, the man never implied a relationship was at hand. He enjoyed her company and that’s always nice but women can get that confused with a relationship. I did it. The only problem was that the man in question was telling me it was a relationship but lying the whole time. And he admitted it.

You learn to pick out the stripes from the polka dots.

You learn that you are worth more than the jerks that play you. Because karma will get them.

And by then you will be smiling from ear to ear, happy and content with the life you have built for yourself, knowing that you are priceless.