Mmmmm what can I say?!?

When I was single, I complained about not being in a relationship.

When I was in a relationship, I complained that I wanted to be single.

This thought is not subject to women only, men have the same thought bubbles.

So why do we enter into relationships knowing the majority are doomed to end into tiny broken pieces?

Is it about sex?

Companionship?

Having (a) travel, (b) dinner, (c) movie, (d) sitting in a park buddies.

The fear of dying alone?

Am I missing anything?

I personally don’t have these thought patterns.

I don’t have a fear of dying alone.

I can travel on my own. And have.

I can eat out at restaurants on my own.

I can go to movies on my own.

I can sit in a park on my own.

I have friends and family for companionship.

Ah but last but not least is sex.

You got me there.

Do you need to have a relationship to get it?

As a woman, only wanting that, and nothing else, does it constitute all sorts of slurs on one’s reputation?

If so, why aren’t men subject to the same slurs?

Why do they just get high fives and slaps on the back but women are subjected to slurs such as ‘cheap’, ‘skant’, ‘slut’ or ‘slapper’?

This isn’t the first time this has been brought up.

I am not Germaine Gree.

I only mention it because it hasn’t changed.

Society still hasn’t changed.

It doesn’t matter if Sex and the City revolutionised women in the 21st century, a slut is a slut.

All the Samantha’s in the world can never change how your friends, family and peers see you.

And you won’t ignore it.

Society is built around judging others.

How people see you.

What people think of you.

Everyone wants to be accepted.

Anyone who tells you they don’t care what people think of them … IS A DOWNRIGHT FILTHY LIAR!!!