Right I have been on three dates with this man and thought there was potential for something until I went on the fourth date. Everything changed and ended on the fourth date.
First of all he was ten minutes late and had sent a text saying if I was late he would start without me. A no no. You wait for your date. Even if it means ordering a drink for yourself (and her) and waiting. I don't care if you're supposedly starving, you are never that hungry.
Second I arrive and he isn't there. So I sit down and wait for him, while have a squiz at the menu to see what I wanted to eat. He shows up, sits down, and doesn't even greet me. What the hell!!
Anyway water under the bridge for me, until he started making conversation.
He started talking about people from European backgrounds and his problems with them. Yes I was amazed that he thought it was bright to bring that up when he is sitting across from someone who is of Italian heritage (and he knew it too). For Christ sake! My parents were born in Italy and came over to Australia. But no for this boy (and use the term boy because a man is smarter than that) he starts to claim that Greek people are dodgy and will rip you off, Serbians start wars but don't worry I like Italians. Its a nice country but the southern part is a little slow. WHAT THE HELL!!!!
I managed to eat my food (quickly too) and smiled and said well you have the right to your opinion, even if you are not basing it on anything. He said that his father had apparently been done over by three businesses which happened to be owned by people of Greek heritage and that was enough for him to be racist.
Me thinks that at this point a smart man would shut the hell up but no this is a boy and an idiot. He proceeded to talk about women who work and he prefers them to stay at home. This was the final straw and I quickly swallowed my wine and asked for the bill.
His response was 'oh this is awkward' and 'I am only stirring'! No. No. No. This isn't stirring this is being racist and discriminatory. A boy with a view that women should remain at home with babies and some how that I have a career is something that he isn't comfortable with. Yeah you can jam that with walnuts.
I said bye bye now and went on my merry way. He called while I was driving home, and in the morning too (both times I never answered) and then sent a pathetic text message saying I hope I didn't offend you and that I had fun at dinner.
My response, I was offended and what you said was over the line for me. Said good luck but good bye. As any boy reacts he decided to respond and said that I was overreacting but good luck to me.
Being a racist is a deal breaker for me.
There is no need to being sprouting that shit in the 21st century.
Keep that shit to yourself, no one wants to here you bigoted, racists comments.
And that's why I dumped his arse! I am definitely not sharing my spare time with an idiot.
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