A dear, sweet, friend of mine asked me that tonight.
And I have a simple answer, it is that hard.
It should be that hard because when the good one comes along, you will take notice. You will recognise that there is a good man in front of you. There are no games to be played. There are no questioning behaviour. There are no unanswered questions. Because its supposed to be easy. Seamless. Simple.
It's not always that way but it should be that way at the beginning, middle and end.
If its difficult from the beginning what hope is there for a lasting relationship?
My friend is lonely; her words. She wants a man who will just stand next to her, and not runaway at the first sign of a speed bump. Not too much to ask. You do need to go through the crap first though. Thats part of the ironic fun. :o)
Ah dating. Its so fucking hard but so easy at the same time.
You shouldn't think so hard about it but sometimes it comes harder when you're guard is up.
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