I'm in a relationship with a man that makes me laugh, makes me happy between the sheets (sorry it had be said) and can hold a conversation without it being all about him.
So why did my ex douche bag of a boyfriend send me an email through the wonderful world of Facebook and say:
I hear you're with a ranga? Hope his a top bloke and treats you nice...
And before you ask, I pressed delete! No response, no thought. Why bother.
The man never gave me the time of day to pay any slight attention to me while we dated (if you want to call it that) so I gave him as much attention as he gave me.
Delete! I love that word.
I did tell my man about that email and true to form, he smiled, laughed a little and said at least I know what I am doing. Love it!
So its been two months since we started dating and I am still finding my way through this whole relationship... I am not sure if that makes sense to you all but I am not entirely use to a man wanting to spend time with me, and actually wanting to spend time with me. And kids, I have to say, I love it!
I love holding his hand.
I love kissing him. It actually sends shivers down my spine? WTF! Didn't even know that happens – except for mills and boons books.
I love sitting next to him while we play Wii (especially the onion chopping game and Mario Kart)
I love waking up next to him.
I love hearing him say sweet things to me... and surprisingly, I thought I would hate that soppy shit but nope... lapping it all up! Who would have thought!
The thing is I am a little scared of becoming one of those 'we' people, the ones that forsake all their friends for their boyfriend … because I think I understand why some people do it.
At the beginning of a new relationship all you want to do is spend every minute with your man and the idea of anything else seems a little... meh.
Don't curse, don't even judge me cause we all do it. I am just new to it all.
So I am interested to know what other people do in the beginning of a relationship?
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